It is grief that can be experienced by either or both the person with a
life-threatening condition and those close to him/her.

It is often unsupported and misunderstood because the ill person
is still living.

It is grief that happens along the way and includes loss of what was,
losses that happen as the illness progresses and the loss of a potential
future with the person.

It doesn't replace grief occurring after a person dies, but can diminish the
shock and intensity (as experienced with unexpected loss); leaving one better
access to their coping skills.

It doesn't necessarily happen because one has knowledge
of an impending death.

It challenges the person dying and those close to him/her to simultaneously
remain connected and begin to let go – to hold hope and grief at the same time.